Live Your Happy

Some people watch me wrangling my 3 kids in public and feel pity for me and wonder why I had so many so close together.. Others watch me and think oh how blessed she is with those little ones...

Some people look at a big huge house and think "house of my dreams"... While others think "who is going to clean all of that?"

Some people look at pets and think "ugh another thing to care for" while others think "the more pets the better"

Some people think of an amusement park as lots of family fun...others think ugh..too many people, too  expensive ..etc

My point with all of this .. Is that everybody has a different point of view.. Different wants and wishes for their life .. Everyone has a different vision of happiness...

Yet all around me.. And I am guilty of it myself .. We try to live in a mold of what is supposed to be.. We compare ourself to others.. Our family to other families.. But for what? Wouldn't it be easier to choose happiness and let the rest go?

It is a difficult concept because sometimes we don't know what we want.. Or we compare ourselves to the unattainable.. 

Something that brings me peace in my grief over my brother is that he was happy when he passed. He was doing what he loved..enjoying life.. And having fun.. 

It was that simple. As it should be for me.. And for you..

So this week I will choose to make a more conscience effort for my happy.. Do happy.. Make happy.. Live happy..

That may mean that I might take out my Christmas music early.. Some people get annoyed with that.. I have a special iPod of Christmas music only... :)

But that is the point of it all.. My happy may not be your happy.. My happy may annoy your happy .. My happy may even get in the way of your happy or vice versa... Buy my happy and the happy of my husband and children are what matters..  

Find your happy.. And live it everyday...